Don’t delay your budgeting: The danger of ‘winging it’ through your debt problems
By Mr Bankruptcy
16th September 2025

When you’re in debt, the idea of creating a budget can feel overwhelming – even unhelpful. People with debt that’s becoming unmanageable believe they can ‘wing it’ by cutting back here and there, making occasional extra payments, and hoping for the best.
But this approach rarely works. Without tracking income, expenses, and repayment goals, you risk overspending, missing payments, or failing to prioritize high-interest debts.Debt tends to linger, grow, or spiral out of control, and the longer you leave it, the more difficult it becomes, and the more your debt problem can grow.
Why budget?
Budgeting isn’t just about tracking the numbers; it’s about taking control. It gives you some transparency in your financial habits, helps you prioritize repayments, and empowers you to make informed decisions. Without a budget, it’s like trying to fix a leak in the dark.
Avoiding a budget often comes from fear: fear of facing up to the reality of your financial situation, or fear of failure. The truth is, budgeting is one of the most powerful tools you have. It doesn’t restrict you, it’s liberating. It shows you what’s possible and helps you to see the path to becoming debt-free.
But it’s no good just going through the motions. Here are five practical steps to build a budget that works for you:
1. Know Your Numbers. Start by gathering all your financial information together, including:
- Your monthly net income (and be realistic, not over-optimistic)
- Your regular, fixed expenses such as rent/mortgage, utilities, insurance etc
- More variable expenses like groceries, transport and entertainment
- What are the minimum debt payments you need to make (credit cards, loans)
- Your total outstanding debt
This step is all about clarity. You can’t manage what you don’t measure. Use a spreadsheet, budgeting app, or even pen and paper — whatever works for you.
2. Prioritize Your Debts. List all your debts, including balances, interest rates, and minimum payments. Then choose a repayment strategy:
- The snowball method: pay off the smallest debt first for quick wins.
- The avalanche method: Focus on the highest-interest debt to save money long-term.
I normally recommend the avalanche method because I believe in tackling the biggest elephant in the room, but both are positive actions.
Whichever method you choose, make sure your budget reflects your priorities; allocate any extra money toward your target debt, while you keep up minimum payments on the rest.
3. Cut Non-Essential Spending. Review your variable expenses and identify areas to cut back on. This doesn’t mean living a miserable life, it means focusing on what’s most important to you; for example:
- Can you cook more meals at home or make sandwiches to take to work?
- Do you still use all those subscriptions?
- Can you put a pause on some discretionary spending while you cut down the biggest debt?
Every pound you save is a pound towards debt repayment. Which reduces your interest costs; small changes add up quickly.
4. Automate and track. Set up automatic payments for bills and debts to avoid missed deadlines that incur additional late fees. And use budgeting tools or apps to track your spending in real time. This helps you stay accountable and spot problem areas early.
5. Review and adjust. Your budget isn’t static; life changes and so should your plan. At the end of each month, review your spending, debt progress, and any unexpected expenses. Adjust your budget to stay on track – and enjoy your successes. This habit builds financial resilience, helping you to respond to challenges without derailing your goals.
Take back control
Budgeting isn’t a punishment; it’s a plan. It makes the difference between hoping your debt goes away and actively making it happen.
Winging it might feel easier in the short term, but it rarely leads to lasting results. Every step you take toward budgeting is a step away from debt and toward financial freedom.
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Here’s How to Change Your Money Mindset for Lasting Success
By Brittany Fisher of financiallywell.info
2nd September 2025

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A person’s relationship with money often has less to do with numbers on a page and more to do with the stories they tell themselves about wealth, security, and opportunity. Many people carry quiet assumptions about money that either limit their choices or give them room to grow. Shifting those assumptions is not about chasing quick riches; it’s about developing a mindset that allows long-term success to take root.
Understanding the Scarcity vs. Abundance Mindset
One of the most powerful shifts comes from recognizing whether you operate from scarcity or abundance. Scarcity convinces you there will never be enough, leading to decisions fueled by fear, hoarding, or hesitation. Abundance, on the other hand, does not mean reckless spending. It means choosing to believe resources can be created, opportunities can be found, and wealth can be grown over time. Simple practices like gratitude journaling or reframing your language around finances help you gradually move from scarcity into abundant mindset. This change lays the foundation for healthier financial choices and greater confidence.
Identifying and Challenging Limiting Beliefs
Every adult carries money beliefs formed in childhood. If you grew up hearing that money was always scarce, or that wealthy people were greedy, those early impressions can still guide your behavior years later. Sometimes, you may not even realize how much those beliefs hold you back until you start to question them. Research shows that childhood money messages that hold you back can follow you into adulthood. Challenging these assumptions takes work, but it begins by asking: whose voice am I listening to? Parents? Teachers? Past failures? Once you name these voices, you can begin to replace them with new ones rooted in possibility.
Practical Daily Habits That Shift Mindset
Your money mindset is not only about big decisions; it’s built on small daily actions. Creating a budget that reflects your values, tracking spending without shame, or celebrating small wins when you pay off debt can reinforce a healthier outlook. Consistency matters. Building daily money practices that improve mindset turns vague goals into lived habits. Over time, these simple steps create new neural pathways that make good decisions feel natural rather than forced.
Advancing Education to Strengthen Earning Power
For many people, investing in education is one of the most effective ways to increase income and improve career security. Additional qualifications not only open doors to new opportunities but also provide confidence to pursue roles with greater responsibility. Online programs make it possible to balance school with the demands of work and family life, ensuring education stays within reach even during busy seasons. For nurses, the chance to enhance skills with an RN to BSN means building on existing expertise while positioning themselves for higher pay and leadership roles.
Visualization and Goal-Based Motivation
People who set clear goals are more likely to stick with them. Visualization is a practical tool here: picture yourself paying off that final loan, or imagine the relief of seeing a healthy savings account. Athletes use visualization to boost performance, and you can apply it to finances too. One powerful approach is to write a letter to your future self describing how you feel when you’ve achieved stability or hit a major milestone. That narrative becomes a motivator you can revisit whenever challenges arise. By anchoring goals to vivid images, you turn abstract dreams into concrete motivation.
Overcoming Distorted Financial Perceptions
Even people with decent incomes sometimes struggle with a warped sense of their finances. This “money dysmorphia” happens when perception doesn’t match reality. You might think you’re worse off than you are, leading to unnecessary stress, or assume you’re better off, which causes reckless decisions. The key is learning to recognize when money perception misaligns reality. Regular financial check-ins, whether through apps, spreadsheets, or conversations with a professional, help you see where you truly stand. Clarity reduces the emotional roller coaster that distorted perceptions can create and helps you make wiser choices.
Cultivating Traits That Improve Savings
Research shows that personality traits strongly influence financial outcomes. People who are optimistic and plan for the future are more likely to build wealth steadily over time. Developing patience, discipline, and curiosity about financial literacy pays off in ways that compound year after year. Traits like optimism and future orientation drive savings, while impulsiveness or short-term thinking can drain them. By cultivating traits aligned with long-term growth, you strengthen both your mindset and your bank account.
Changing your money mindset is not a single breakthrough but a collection of shifts: reframing scarcity, questioning old beliefs, practicing daily financial mindfulness, and visualizing a brighter future. When you start to view money as a tool instead of a source of fear, your decisions grow steadier, your opportunities expand, and your confidence rises. Success is not about never making mistakes; it’s about having the mindset to learn from them and keep moving forward.
Brittany Fisher has been a Certified Public Accountant for over two decades, with expertise in taxes, personal finance, and financial literacy. She founded Financiallywell.info, her own website dedicated to providing valuable insight and advice about managing money. Through her work, Brittany strives to empower individuals with the skills and understanding needed to make sound financial decisions – from budgeting and saving to retirement planning and beyond.